Alys was invited to her first national team training camps in 2013. The national team trains on a four-year cycle, which is referred to as a quad. Each summer of the quad consists of a big tournament, rotating between the World Championships and the World Cup, with the Olympics taking place in the final summer of the cycle. Alys worked to keep being invited back to the training team in hopes of eventually being named to the Olympic roster. The team is solidified just a month or two before the Games, leaving many athletes wondering if all their hard work has paid off.
“You’re essentially training for four years for something that you may or may not qualify for, before the whole cycle restarts,” Alys said.
Alys took the entire 2015-16 year off, which was supposed to be her senior year in college, to train with the national team in hopes of competing in the Games that summer. Unfortunately, after completing her first quad, Alys was the last athlete cut and she did not make the 2016 Olympic roster.
“I had to make that decision based on my dreams and my goals, knowing that there is a possibility that I wasn’t going to make it, which is what ended up happening,” Alys remembers.
From there, she returned to her collegiate career to play her senior season, and went on to play for a club team in Spain the following year. Being able to experience a different culture, language, and playing style was a once in a lifetime opportunity that she encourages every collegiate athlete to try.
“They play the same game but it’s a very different style of water polo and I feel like it rounded out my game really well. I tried to soak up every minute of the experience,” Alys said.
With the next quad cycle approaching, Alys then had to decide if she wanted to try for the Olympics again. Torn between her desire to settle down and start a family and her restless drive for redemption, it took Alys a long time to reach a verdict.
“I kept feeling that drive to go back alongside the fear of, what if it happens again? What if I train another four years and I don’t make the team? It came down to a leap of faith and the fact that the dream was still alive,” Alys remembers.
After a lot of thought, Alys took the risk and rejoined the national team. Bouncing back from such a defeat wasn’t easy for her, but Alys had grown immensely both as an athlete and as a person.
“At that point I thought, ‘what’s the worst that’s going to happen?’ I’ve already lived through the worst thing and I came back from it,” Alys said.
Due to the 2020 Games being postponed because of Covid, Alys ended up training for five years before she would have the chance to solidify her spot on the roster. The news of the postponement was heartbreaking to Alys and every other athlete that had dreamed of competing. The anxiety of wondering what was going to happen and the fear of a cancellation was devastating.
“What are you supposed to do? You just keep training and you keep pushing forward,” Alys said.
Alys and the team did just that, training an extra year in preparation for the 2021 Tokyo Games. After making the roster, she would experience her first and only Olympics, which was very different from previous Games.
“There were no fans there, the Olympic Village was pretty closed, we got tested everyday, we had to wear masks, and we weren’t allowed out and about,” Alys recalled.
With this being her first Olympics, the abnormalities didn’t feel that weird to her, as she had no other Olympic experience to compare it to. It was very hard for her to not have her family there supporting her, but Alys blocked everything else out and focused on playing water polo. However, going from not making the roster in 2016 to starting in every game was tough for her. She was mentally and physically drained for the whole two weeks, barely sleeping or eating because she felt so consumed by nerves. Despite this, the constant reminder that she was part of a team was extremely comforting to her.
“I can make a mistake because my teammates have my back. They can make mistakes and I’ve got their back. You just have to remember it all comes back to your team,” Alys said.
Alys and her teammates had the weight of defending back-to-back gold medals for the U.S on their shoulders. They went through intensive mental training and sports psychology to help them overcome the immense pressure that was placed upon them.
“We were trained to rely on each other and focus on being in the present moment in every game, and to let the feelings and emotions come, but to not let them dictate our actions,” Alys said.
When Alys and her teammates secured the gold medal with a 14-5 victory over Spain, it was not only a celebratory moment for them, but also a huge sigh of relief. Alys had been on the team for eight years, and finally achieving her goal was an ecstatic feeling.