Preparing for Marriage, Training with Collegiate National Training Team, and Finally Arriving at UC Irvine
By Nolan Flexen
After finishing my first year playing collegiate volleyball this past season, my life has changed and is going in a different direction. The three most significant changes in my life occurred during the last week at school. It all had happened so fast, but I couldn't be more excited for the opportunities I've been given to steward and pursue with excellence.
In July, I was allowed to train with the Collegiate National Team at their training center in Anaheim, California. This was an incredible experience, and the week we spent training was the most beneficial week in my collegiate career. We spent a week in Anaheim training two times a day for four days, with Friday being our competition day, where we competed against a few Senior National Team guys. We heard from different pro players about life playing volleyball overseas, and I was able to ask as many questions as possible to understand what was to come. My primary goal throughout this training opportunity was to not take it for granted. Over the years, I have learned to hold volleyball with an open hand, understanding that it is a gift from above and could be taken away at any moment. So I made sure to make the most of this opportunity.
I also used this training block to prepare for my first season at UC Irvine. My career as a volleyball player has been unique. Coach Kniff recruited me in high school and then again in 2021. Both times didn’t work out, and after the second time, I quit volleyball altogether. My faith and mental health were declining, and I knew I needed to remove myself from volleyball to turn my life around. A little over a year after walking away from volleyball, I was recruited to attend a small Christian school called The Master’s University. I was worried that volleyball would take me back to the same place as before, but I felt a calling to return to school. After a successful season, I gained a new love for volleyball and a desire to play more. I committed to UC Irvine and knew that this was the time I would finally make it.
Within all these major moves for volleyball, I was also preparing for the most significant decision of my life: asking my girlfriend to marry me. The same week I talked to Kniff, I had bought a ring and was trying to plan when to propose. While this summer has given me a fantastic time with volleyball and many avenues to grow, I have developed the most in my relationship with my fiancé. Going into this new stage of life and getting married on top of it has been the best opportunity of my life. I am so thankful for all I have been given to steward, and I plan on stewarding it well.
Looking back on these last few months, I am grateful for where I came from. It has prepared me for the road ahead and made me into the man I am today. I couldn't be more blessed and excited for my new walk of life with my soon-to-be wife at UC Irvine.
Nolan