6/18/2023
By Andre Henry
Having a son has been the most amazing, but hardest journey I have ever been through. I’ve never experienced something that has given me this much joy but required as much sacrifice. When I first found out about him, I thought my life would be completely altered. In my mind I would have to give up my athletic career and begin to provide for my son. It took me some time to wrap my head around it since all I knew was basketball, but I was willing to drop everything to support him.
Throughout my athletic pursuits, I have learned invaluable lessons about discipline, dedication, and perseverance. These qualities have not only shaped me as an athlete but have also allowed me to be a better father. I truly believe that the sacrifices and determination required to excel in my sport have helped me become the father I am today.
Just as I train to reach my athletic goals, I also strive to be the best father I can be. Everyday I strive to be the best father I can be because I know my kid is watching everything I do. It’s an amazing feeling knowing my son is always watching, learning, and imitating my actions. I hope I can instill my values and morals into him so that he is better than me in every aspect.
Balancing school with the demands of being an athlete and a father has not always been easy. There have been moments of exhaustion and doubt. But, in those moments, I find motivation in the fact that I am setting an example for my child. I want him to witness the pursuit of education, the pursuit of physical excellence, and the pursuit of being a loving and present parent.
Fatherhood has enriched my life in countless ways. The joy of witnessing my child take his first steps, hearing his laughter fill the air, and experiencing their unconditional love is a gift that is truly indescribable. He reminds me that life is about more than just personal achievements but about creating a legacy for those after you and feeling the world's kindness and love.
As I celebrate Father's Day this year, I want to express my gratitude to you son. You have been a constant source of inspiration and strength. Your pure soul, pure heart and unconditional love has shaped me into the person and father I am today. I am eternally grateful for the lessons you taught me about life, both on and off the court.
To all the fathers out there who, like me, strive to balance their passion for sports, their pursuit of education, and their commitment to parenthood, I salute you. We are the epitome of dedication and love, and we are shaping the next generation through our actions and words.
Lastly, thank you son for making every day with you a great day, I love you and I couldn’t be more proud and happy to call you my son.
Love,
Dad
