From his family connections to his time as a student-athlete, and now his continued support of both UC Irvine and the men’s tennis program, Neel Grover is the definition of an Anteater for life.
Grover got into tennis because his father and brother played while he was growing up, but his first love was baseball. He wanted to pursue baseball going into high school before his brother convinced him otherwise.
“My brother pushed me more into tennis,” Grover said. “The best advice he ever gave me was you need 17 other people to play baseball, you only need one other to play tennis.”
Grover listened to his brother and really started to see his tennis game develop in high school, achieving his first junior ranking when he was 15 years old. Although he was a little late to enter the rankings compared to other up-and-coming tennis players, that helped fuel him throughout his high school career. As a junior at Dana Hills High School, Grover and his doubles partner won the CIF-Southern Section title. Coincidentally, that was the same year Palos Verdes High protégé and eventual world No. 1, Pete Sampras, was the CIF singles champion.
While Sampras went straight from high school to the pros, Grover was keeping his options open to continue his career at the collegiate level. UC Irvine was always on the radar for Grover with his father working as a physician at the UCI Medical Center and his older sister graduating from the prestigious university. He was also interested in UCLA, but in the end, it was the Anteaters’ head coach, Greg Patton, who tipped the scales.
“I wanted to go to the best school I could play tennis at that was preferably in California,” Grover said. “I initially wanted to go to UCLA but then I got to spend some time with Greg Patton. He could convince you of anything. The team was already great, but he helped sell the school, the program and the area, which really made me want to be part of his team.”
When Grover arrived on campus, the Anteaters had established themselves as one of the top-10 teams in the country. With nearly the entire squad returning, Grover would redshirt his first year, when UCI achieved the highest ranking in program history at No. 3. That season, Grover supported his teammates while continuing to train and work hard to improve his own game. The following year, he made his way into the lineup for his first match and remembers it vividly.
“I didn’t know I was going to play that day against UC Santa Barbara; somebody had gotten hurt last minute so Coach Patton told me I was playing at No. 6,” Grover recalled. “I was nervous. The players next to me on courts two and four were losing at the time and I had no idea what the other three courts were doing. I was losing badly, down 5-0 when Coach Patton came on the court and told me you know we’re losing on every other court and I put you in here because you’re supposed to be the future captain of this team. He said everyone was counting on me and I needed to win this match. I came back and won in straight sets. What I found out later was the other three guys were winning easily. You can only do that once, but Coach Patton knew what would get me going. He was just an amazing leader.”
Under the leadership of Patton, Grover - who was a two-time captain - and his teammates won four-straight Big West championships and made three NCAA Tournaments, which at the time was only a 16-team field. Winning was important to Grover, but the experience and friendships he developed are what he loved most about his time as a UC Irvine men’s tennis student-athlete.
“I learned so much from my teammates and we had such a great team atmosphere,” Grover said. “I think that’s what made college tennis so special to me and such a big part of my life. It’s why I still play competitively now, because I enjoyed the time with my teammates so much. It is such a special part of my life.”
Since college, Grover has won 22 national championships, including 16 with former UCI teammate Art Hernandez. This year, Grover put together his best post-collegiate season, winning four titles, including last week at the National Clay Court championships in Florida. He also traveled to Turkey to play for the United States' four-person National Team back in March.